Duplicate directory error / don't watch node_modules / ignore others (watch)

Just got the following error. How can I exclude node_modules from being watched with middleman (which I think is a waste of resources imho) and how can I exclude other directories from being watched?

== Blog Sources: posts/{lang}/{year}-{month}-{day}-{title}.html (:prefix + :sources)
        ** ERROR: directory is already being watched! **

        Directory: /exos/middleman/source/javascripts/vendor/mathjax

        is already being watched through: /exos/middleman/node_modules/mathjax

        MORE INFO: https://github.com/guard/listen/wiki/Duplicate-directory-errors
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